Thursday, June 30, 2011

Love will follow - Book Review



I just finished this book named Love will follow - Why the Indian Marriage is Burning.
Written by a psychologist Shaifali Sandhya, who has come across many cases pertaining to failing/failed Indian marriages, it contains many case studies.

I concur with the principal conclusion of the book that the institution of marriage in
India is in a state of deep shock due to the extremely rapid changes in past 20 years
or so. Women have become much more educated, they earn well, their parents bring
them up very well. But the life after marriage hasn't change that rapidly. And in most
of the cases women(wives) are at the receiving end of the bargain.

Still, the book could have included few case studies where women are not at the receiving
end. That would have made it a more balanced writing.

Despite the lack of balance it's an eye opener for those willing to take a plunge into marriage
as it informs them about the problems they might end up facing. For those who have
tied the knot, it may help them mend some cracks.

When I bought it from Flipkart, the discount was around 25%, now it's 50%.
Either it's selling a lot or Flipkart is simply trying to clear the stock :-)

Friday, June 24, 2011

Checking your IT Return Receipt status for e-filing

Here is the link.

Or go to https://incometaxindiaefiling.gov.in/
and click on ITR-V Receipt Status on the left.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Bangalore tenants association

Bangalore needs a tenant association where tenants can unite
and fight the corrupt landlords.

If there is any such org already, do let me know by commenting on this post.

Monday, June 06, 2011

Stanley Ka Dabba

Watched this movie recently.
I feel as if something was missing.
Even though the kids in the movie acted superbly, it lacked contrast.
Kids need to be contrasted with adults. I hope Amol Gupte will
forgive me for comparing it with TZP, but that's where TZP scored - in contrasting kids
with adults.

Treadmill - Hindi Play

हम कहीं पहुँच नहीं पाते फिर भी चलते क्यों हैं?
क्योंकि चलना जरूरी है.

सर ये बात तो ऊपर से निकल गयी.
कोई बात नहीं, जाने दो. फिर कभी अगर जिंदगी में मिले तो पकड़ लेना और पूछना कि भाई उस दिन तो
ऊपर से निकल गए, आज पकड़ में आये हो.

These are some of the dialogues from the play Treadmill (which I watched yesterday at Rang Shankara).
It was a nice play overall, with a dry humping scene which makes it a very adultish play.
Director of this play Abhishek Majumdar has also acted in A small,small world.

Background music was soothing and haunting at the same time and if it was created
originally for this play, it's indeed a great accomplishment.

Writer : Sandeep Shikhar
Language : Hindi
Cast : Pratyush Singh, Virginia Rodrigues, Sandeep Shikhar and Ashwini Kumar Chakres

Sandeep Shikhar in a scene from Treadmill
Pratyush Singh


Ticket price : Rs. 100/-

Friday, June 03, 2011

Movies released in India on a particular date/date-range

http://www.imdb.com/search/title?countries=in&release_date=2011-05-27,2011-05-27
will show you movies released on 27th May, 2011.

Edit: I don't think this method works.

Hindus voted as a bloc in Assam & Kerala?

I just came across this headline :

Hindus voting strategically? An analysis of the Hindu vote in Kerala and Assam

This is one of the most unanticipated headlines I could have ever expected.
These kind of headlines in Indian media are reserved usually for minorities.
Can this be an indication that Hindus in these states have become/about to become minorities?